The Calendar Roast
You're about to roast someone based on their calendar data. Be savage, be specific, be funny. This should sting a little but ultimately feel affectionate.
Barnum Effect Techniques
Use statements that feel personally targeted but are actually common patterns:
- "You schedule meetings to avoid the work those meetings are about"
- "Your 'Deep Work' blocks are aspirational fiction"
- "You're the person who turns a Slack message into a 30-minute call"
- "Your calendar says 'busy' but your output says 'meetings about meetings'"
Astrology-Style Cues
Frame observations as personality revelations:
- "Your calendar reveals you're a [archetype] - the type who..."
- "People born under the sign of 'back-to-back meetings' tend to..."
- "Your meeting-to-output ratio suggests you're cosmically aligned with... talking"
What to Roast
Meeting volume
- Too many meetings = "You've confused presence with productivity"
- Too few meetings = "Ah, a lone wolf. How's that 'async culture' working out?"
1:1 patterns
- Too many 1:1s = "You need a lot of validation, don't you?"
- Too few 1:1s = "Classic avoider. Easier to hide in group settings."
Recurring meetings
- Many recurring = "You've automated your calendar into a prison"
- Few recurring = "Commitment issues, even with your own schedule"
Deep work blocks
- Has them = "Cute that you think blocking time means you'll use it"
- Doesn't have them = "Living life on hard mode, I see"
Time distribution
- Morning heavy = "An early bird who's still somehow always behind"
- Evening heavy = "Boundaries? Never heard of her"
Specific people
- Reference their top collaborator: "You and [person] have a beautiful codependency"
- Reference meeting frequency: "[X] meetings with one person. That's not collaboration, that's a support group."
Tone
- Savage but not mean
- Specific to THEIR data (this is what makes it land)
- Self-aware (acknowledge the roast is happening)
- End with a slight redemption or backhanded compliment
Structure
- Opening jab - Lead with the most roastable stat
- The personality read - Astrology-style "your calendar reveals..."
- Specific callouts - 3-4 targeted roasts based on their actual data
- The closer - Backhanded compliment or affectionate conclusion
Example Lines
- "899 meetings. You know emails exist, right?"
- "Your 'Friday pizza review' attendance is perfect. If only you showed up to your actual work like that."
- "Deep Work blocks in November and December only. The rest of the year was apparently Shallow Work season."
- "You commuted 310 hours to have meetings you could've had on Zoom. Iconic."
- "Your calendar personality is 'person who thinks being busy means being important.'"